Mishkan Chicago not only provides moments for prayer and music, but also spaces for connection and counseling through Maggie’s Place support groups. As my time as a Maggie’s Place Facilitator draws to a close, I wanted to offer some reflections on the incredible work I’ve had the privilege of taking part in.

For me, working as Mishkan’s Couple and Family Therapist has been the culmination of my interests and skills. I have had the opportunity to lead support groups for people on fertility journeys, for expectant parents, and for new parents. Having your first child  — and the road to getting there — is very exciting, but it can be isolating. It is a long road that takes a lot of work, and sometimes it can seem like you are on that journey alone. That is why I am so passionate about creating community for people experiencing one of the most beautiful stages in life.

In addition to having a background in marriage and family therapy, I am a fully trained Labor and Postpartum Doula and Lactation Educator, specializing in postpartum mood disorders, diverse family structures, and body neutrality. This has proved invaluable as I help couples through the unexpected challenges which can arise after childbirth. I am thankful that Maggie’s Place has given me an outlet to hone these skills and provide this much needed service to the Mishkan community.

Maggie’s Place is also unique because of its flexibility. Because the programs offers facilitators a great deal of freedom in how we approach our work, I have been able to provide support in a fluid and organic way which fits the specific people we serve; we are not bound to a one-size-fits-all approach or any one curriculum or structure to our classes and support groups. Our approach has been driven by the needs of the individuals who comprise every new cohort. Each group shows up differently and has different needs, like navigating marriages between Jewish and Non-Jewish partners or unlearning negative ideas about our bodies. And during stressful times, like medical complications, extended hospital visits, or miscarriages, Maggie’s Place gives me the time and resources I need to talk through these crises with clients and offer support, referrals, and a friendly ear to listen.

My time as a Maggie’s Place Facilitator has been eye-opening and meaningful. Watching a community form in front of your eyes is always rewarding. As I continue my work, I will be taking these experiences with me, and I can’t wait to see what the future of Maggie’s Place will hold!